
There are a lot of things I'm not qualified to write about (of course, 
this has never stopped writers before).  But one of the things I feel 
I'm eminently qualified to do is write about love.  I've been in love 
more than once.  I've been in too many relationships to count.  Some of 
them have been horrendous slogs, others ephemeral + dramatic flare-ups, +
 quite a few fell somewhere in between.  Either way, one thing I'm good 
at is connected to one thing I believe in wholeheartedly, which is the 
capacity for humans to love + the redemptive place that love can play in
 our culture.  My life would have no value without it.  My best writing 
comes from a place of love (of characters, places, experiences, 
languages, ideas, etc., etc.).  My best relationships are overflowing 
with that stuff too.  Anyway, this time I wrote a 
lyrical essay about my relationship with LB, which the 
Good Men Project was
 happy to publish because they love it when men talk about love.  If you
 have time, I hope you'll read it + tell me what you think about my 
piece, 
"How to Stay in Love."